Unanswerable Questions

Hello friends, family and other interested parties.

It’s been a while. Mainly because nothing much had been happening on the cancer front. No news is good news as they say. But that’s all changed this week.

Quick Recap: Tumors are measured and given an aggregate number that reflects negative, positive or no change. Every CT I’ve had over the last few months has shown a “major shift,” meaning I was in the negative numbers. My tumors were shrinking. Yahoo.

If you’ve been here from the beginning you may recall that when I was first diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer (6/2019), the retina specialist broke the news by saying “I have good new and other news.” Which has become the family’s way of comically imparting important information.

Brace yourselves, I have good news and other news.

The good news – I do not have a brain tumor.

The other news – I do have several lesions on my skull inside the dura (the first layer between the skull and brain). There are also a scattering of questionable spots on my liver.

The unanswerable questions are many, but there are general assumptions we can make.

Over the last fourteen weeks I have undergone two, total hip replacements. The right hip, fourteen weeks ago in August, and the left, six weeks ago in October. Both were necessary to my quality of life and I am 100% happy with my decision to have them done. However, there may have been serious consequences as they required my going off my cancer medications for ten days each time.

When I made the decision it was with the full knowledge that I was risking losing control over cancer growth if my medication failed. The problem of course is that I wouldn’t know that until there was cancer growth. And, I would never know if going off the meds were the trigger.

Cancer meds randomly stop working all the time. As I am on three medications, it is also possible that only one of them has stopped working because maddeningly, I still had negative growth in previous tumors even as I had new one develop on my skull.

I am now off all drugs and out of the trial that was at least partially working, and have to start all over, hoping another cocktail of meds will have as much success.

This week, I met with my oncologist to go over my options. I could take the regularly prescribed treatment of approved drugs. I could try chemotherapy (neither of us thought that was a great idea). Or, I could volunteer for another study. There happen to be four I am eligible to join.

I believe in the importance of research and clinical trials, and though being a participant has risks, I am willing to take them. My cancer has no cure, but every step we take, any information gathered, makes it possible for the next women in the cycle to live longer or have a better quality of life than the last. It is why I am still here. It maybe what saves my daughters one day.

It will be a few weeks before I know which study I’ll be participating in because my cancer needs to be retyped and tested for new genetic markers, or mutations. I have PIK3, a mutation that is common in breast, liver and colorectal cancers. That is what the drug palbociclib was treating, one of the three I was taking (you know those annoying Ibrance commercials? “I’m living with metastatic breast cancer…”).

Speaking of retyping, that is one of the other possible causes of my medications failing. If my tumors are no longer ER+ (estrogen positive) then the medications I take that target that feature won’t work.

Speaking of not working, guess what else doesn’t work? My left knee. There was already a plan to undergo a total knee replacement in the spring once the Covid craziness died down, but since I announced I was going off my meds, both daughters, my husband, and my physical therapist all enthusiastically proclaimed it a great time to get my knee replaced.

Sure, sure, on paper it makes sense. Once I start on a new drug trial I will not go off it again, making it likely that I will suffer with the pain and debilitating effects of arthritis in my knee for the rest of my life. My daughters are still home and able to care for me, drive me to app’t and keep me from going stir crazy during the remainder of this pandemic. And in order to get full use of my spankin new hips (which may have cost me a few years of my life) a new knee is a must to keep recovery moving forward. Otherwise, I can’t progress to walking at least a mile, my modest goal for undergoing the surgery.

But seriously??? Another major surgery (scheduler just called, it’s on the books for Dec 8th. I wish it was a week earlier) so soon after having just had two of them fourteen, and six weeks ago??? Okay, it’ll be seventeen and nine by then, but still!

Easy for everyone else to say it’s a great idea when they aren’t the ones getting all drugged up on narcotics, suffering the fun constipating effects, along with dopey, brain fog that comes with it. Having to ask everyone to do nearly everything for you, and feeling like a pest. And I swear, if one more person mentions that knee surgery is more painful than hip surgery, and the recovery is longer and more painful too – I will demonstrate said pain on their ass.

Bluster aside, I am grateful. I had a good run with medications I tolerated with minor side effects for sixteen months and I still have options. That’s a hell of a lot more than many women get.

I’m being treated at what is arguably the best hospital in the nation by the leading researchers in their fields. I have two new hips that work, and are nearly pain free. I had relatively quick recoveries with the help of a team of very kind home care nurses, and physical therapists. Not to mention my devoted family and cadre of faithful friends.

I’ll post more when I know more.

Don’t let the unanswerable question in life get you down or drive you crazy. That’s what politics is for.

Love to all,

Lynne

Another Wicked Good Report: Yawn…

Is this getting boring? OF COURSE NOT!!! Who could get tired of hearing their health is improving? I can’t imagine ever taking my progress for granted. I’m beyond grateful for the people and drugs that are extending my life expectancy.

Two weeks ago I underwent another round of CT’s and a brain MRI…nothing in there of course. Can’t tell you how many times I heard that joke last week.

The CT showed more decreases, and/or stability in the remaining tumors-those are mostly the bone lesions. The decreases mostly soft tissue, like the lungs, and liver.

In other news, my clinical coordinator told me the trial sponsor has decided to forgo the second phase of the study, and jump right to phase three. That is spectacular news. It means patients in the first phase of the study (ME!) are doing so well they are willing to take the financial risk of funding the double blind study.

And guess what? The arm they decided has the best potential for success is the one I am in! FYI: an arm is the combination of drugs being tested. I’m in the phase one study of the drug DGC-0077 which has 6 arms. I am in arm E, taking a combination of palbociclib, fulvestrant, and the GDC-0077.

That is an incredible boost of confidence in the particular drug combination I am taking. It’s especially exciting to my team since I happen to be the only one in this arm at MGH. My team will also be taking part in the phase three trial.

Another milestone, I have reached the 6-month mark which means I get to drop down to one clinic visit a month. I’ll still have testing (CT, MRI) every other month, but no more lab/nurse/doctor visit on day 15.

Other than a few annoying side effects, like my fingernails breaking off at the nail bed…ouch, not much else is going on. My hair still thins about once a month but I don’t seem to be losing all of it. The mouth sores are under control so long as I don’t indulge in things overly acidic, or spicy. My sense of taste comes and goes which can be disheartening but is tolerable.

What’s tolerable is way of life on sooo many levels these days. But I’ll gladly take tolerable for another ten, fifteen years at least.

Happy Valentine’s Day

Love you all.


Stealing My Doctor’s Thunder

I had a CT scan two weeks ago but circumstances caused a schedule problem, and I wasn’t able to see my oncologist until today. They hate when that happens because it means test result are released before I see him. I assured my team that I wouldn’t over react, when I read the results, and I didn’t. I might have got slightly emotional, but that was it.

Today, when Dr. Juric walked in all smiles, I completed stole his thunder when I blurted out I’d read the report. However, I am not a medical professional, and while I knew the results were good, I didn’t know how good. He got to tell me that part.

“It’s a major change. It couldn’t be better.”

I’ll never tire of hearing that. And I hope I don’t have to for a good long while.

We didn’t have a long talk about specifics, other than some lesions are completely gone, others are significantly reduced.

As I saw the other team members they were all smiles. Nothing is more reassuring than a bunch of smiling happy medical professionals congratulating you.

He asked if I was happy. I told him if he’s happy, I’m happy, and he was very, very, happy.

So, Happy, Happy, Holidays to Everyone!

WriNoes Do NaNo 2019

Hello intrepid WriNoShores!

We have made it through two fifths of the month, so far so good! Several of you have crossed the halfway mark, congratulations. A lot of you are somewhere between the daily goal and 10k…me for one. And, I noticed a few of you stagnating in the weeds. What’s up writer friends?

It is hard to get going some years. Life interrupts with its endless demands on your attention, work calls, children get sick, you lose interest. It’s all okay. This event is fun, and we sometimes take it seriously, but it’s not life and death. It is not crucial to your well being. Do not stress about not getting your word count in this year, there’s always next year, or this spring…Hello Camp Wrino! If you’ve only managed a few thousand word, well that’s more than you started with, hooray you!

And your writing isn’t tied to NaNoWriMo. It’s yours. You can pick it up and drop it when ever you need or want to. We are here all year, not just for November. January through October, four times a month the WriNoShore’s get together to support each other’s writing time. The second, and fourth Tuesdays with me in Haverhill, and the first, and third Sunday’s with Julia in Beverly.

Don’t let November be the only time you find the magic of writing. Make a commitment to yourself and your creative spirit to come write with us. Or carve out your own time, even if it is only once a week for an hour or two. Get yourself out of the house or office, wherever you spend your time, and get a fresh perspective. Find a coffee shop a few towns over. A library you’ve never been too. A bench in the park, a waiting room in a hospital, a hotel lobby. Any place you can sit undisturbed and have some personal time to pursue your passion.

Back to this year…I’m falling behind my word count and that’s okay. I’m really enjoying my story and the research. I’m not quite so competitive anymore and don’t have the overwhelming drive to come in first in the word count (incoming whine…not that you can easily see who is ahead anymore with the new website).

I’m happy to be toiling away in the company of my fellow writers. Loving the variety of stories and cast of character that we are. And though it is still early, I’m looking forward to the TGIO and Reading on December 1st.

The Kick-Off Party and All-Night All-Write were a blast. Thank you to everyone who participated and supported those endeavors.

As promised here are the three beverages I developed for our cocktail hour this year.

The 2019 All-Night All-Night Cocktail Recipes

These recipes were developed for the 2019 All-Night, All-Write. George, a rock hound was the jumping off point for thinking about drinks. Then I poured over websites and books looking for literary themed drinks titles. I had a few things in mind then had a conversation with Cyd.

Cyd’s Pen Pal

Cyd, who was joining us for the first time this year, mentioned liking Jack Daniel’s, and its connection to mining country. Hence, I was inspired to utilize whiskey and bourbon. I was also looking to use Averna, an amaro, since I’d used an amaro last year and wanted to try this one.

This is my rif on a Pen Pal, found here…https://punchdrink.com/recipes/pen-pal/

1 serving

1 1/2 oz Jack Daniel’s Tennessee Whiskey

3/4 oz dry vermouth

3/4 oz Averna Amaro Siciliano

Add ingredients to a mixing glass, add ice and stir to chill.

Strain into a chilled coupe or cocktail glass. 

Garnish with a strip of lemon zest.

Crash Of WriNoes

Paul was reading about rhinoceri and mentioned that a group of them is called a crash. Since the WriNoes “crash” at our house for the All-Night, this drink was born. It is my rif on this Cold Toddy… https://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/cold-toddy

8 servings

2 med oranges, remove zest from 1 orange w/vegetable peeler, and juice (should be 1/4c)

5-6 med lemons, zest 1 lemon w/vegetable peeler, juice enough lemons to make 1 cup juice

3, 3” cinnamon sticks

6 tea bags (I used cinnamon apple chamomile, you can use an English Breakfast, Earl Grey, even a Lemon Ginger)

15 whole cloves

2/3 cup maple syrup

1 3/4 c cold water

2c rye whiskey or bourbon 

1 tsp orange or reg bitters

Cut 2nd orange into slices and cut in half for garnish.

Place zest in a small saucepan. Whack cinnamon sticks with the side of a chef’s knife to break up, add to saucepan with tea bags, cloves, and 1 3/4 cups water. Bring to a boil and immediately remove from heat; let sit 5 minutes. Remove tea bags, then stir in maple syrup; let cool completely, about 20 minutes.

Strain tea mixture through a fine-mesh sieve into a pitcher and add rye/bourbon, bitters, and reserved orange juice and lemon juice. Add 2 cups ice and stir until ice is melted and toddy is very cold.

Pour toddy into Collin’s glasses filled with ice and garnish with 1/2 orange wheel.

Smooth as Satin

My third cocktail is a thank you to my self-proclaimed, personal driver, Satin. I  developed this homage to her qualities, something smooth, a little sweet, earthy, with a hint of tart. Originally a ginger ale and ginger syrup concoction I tailored this to be more alcohol less fizz, with an earthy nutmeg rather than ginger.

1 serving

2oz Bourbon

2 oz Goya Pear Nectar

1/2 oz lemon juice

1 oz nutmeg simple syrup (see recipe below)

Combine bourbon, pear nectar, lemon juice, and simple syrup, in shaker filled with ice. Shake vigorously. Strain over ice in rocks glass. Garnish with pear slice.

Nutmeg Honey Simple Syrup

1/2 c honey/

1/2 cup cold water

Whole nutmeg (never previously ground)

Combine water and honey in small saucepan, bring to simmer stirring until honey dissolves. Remove from heat. Grate about 1/4 of a whole nutmeg into the syrup and let steep 20min. Strain through a coffee filter or fine sieve. Refrigerate.

I’ve Been Holding Out

Last week I had a CT but didn’t get the results until today. However, I’ve been holding out on you. I also visited my eye doctor.

With tears in her eyes she showed us (Jen and I) the scans. No fluid, no cancer. Whoa!

It was hard to not extrapolate that to mean the remaining cancer could have been similarly affected. It was hard to not tell everyone the good news, but I didn’t want to have to temper that a week later with a more sobering report.

NO SUCH PROBLEM!!!

My oncologist’s exact words today were “I couldn’t be any happier with the results.”

According to their metrics, the regression was 1.3% away from being considered a “major” change. This seemed to be slightly unexpected, and very much celebrated by the team.

They will never tell you what outcomes they expect other than generalities and ranges because everyone is different. Nor will they say what more I can surmise from this progress. But, they did confess, it wouldn’t be unrealistic for me to see a continuation of this regression.

I’ll take it.

The crappy stuff, the incredibly awful mouth sores, will be treated with a steroid rinse. It’ll be a while before I can tell if that helps. Of course that cure has its own side effect too-candida. Not great, but a yeast infection in my mouth versus open sores, is a no brainer.

Overall, the last few weeks have been going very well. I’ve had energy and been able to do everything I wanted with minimal side-effect interference.

It was the mouth sore that finally put a damper on my appetite and sense of taste. Only the unpredictable diarrhea is the true buzz kill.

As will always be the case, the end of week two/beginning of week three in the cycle will bring a drop in my WBC, platelets, and energy. Today is day twenty two so my levels should start to go up over the next week.

And so you know I’m not all talk, once I got permission, I got my flu shot.

Next CT is the day before Thanksgiving. I have a lot to be thankful for this year. Besides the obvious pharmaceuticals, it is you all that I’m most grateful for.

You have kept me laughing, cried with me, hugged me, worried about me, made terrible jokes, and spent many hours driving me to and fro.

I love you all.

Lynne